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#62 Relevance Test: Are you valued for your Skills or your Leadership?
Why the Best Technical Leaders Often Get Stuck

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1.0 Introduction
There's a question most technology leaders avoid asking themselves.
If you disappeared tomorrow, what would your organization actually miss:
Your Technical Expertise, or Your Leadership?
Be honest with yourself for a moment. When your name comes up in leadership meetings, what are you known for? Solving complex technical problems? Being the go-to expert who can troubleshoot anything? The person who keeps systems running smoothly?
Or are you known for vision, strategy, and developing others?
For most of my career, I was firmly in the first category. And I was proud of it. I'd built my reputation on being the person who could solve problems nobody else could touch. The one who understood our systems better than anyone. The technical expert leadership called when things got complicated.

But here's what I didn't realize at the time.
That same reputation was quietly building a cage around my career.
Because while I was busy proving my technical worth, others were being promoted to roles I thought I was qualified for. People with less technical depth. People who couldn't architect systems the way I could. People who, frankly, I didn't think were as capable as I was.
And I was angry about it. Frustrated. Confused.
Until a mentor asked me a question that changed everything:
"Robert, are you more valuable for what you know, or for how you lead?"
I didn't have a good answer. And that silence revealed everything.
2.0 The Technical Excellence Trap
Most technology professionals build their careers on a simple formula. Master your craft. Deliver results. Get promoted. Repeat.
And it works. For a while.
You get promoted from individual contributor to team lead. From team lead to manager. From manager to director. Each step rewards you for deeper technical expertise and better execution.
But somewhere around the director or senior director level, the rules change completely. And nobody tells you.
Suddenly, the technical skills that got you promoted start keeping you stuck. The expertise that made you invaluable becomes the reason you can't move up.
Because organizations don't promote their best technicians to the C-suite. They promote their best strategic thinkers. Their most effective communicators. The leaders who can translate technology into business impact.
I learned this through painful experience. I got passed over for a role I thought I'd earned. When I asked for feedback, my director said something I'll never forget:
"You're our best technical resource. We can't afford to lose you in that capacity. We need you exactly where you are."
It sounded like a compliment. But it was actually a career prison sentence.
What he was really saying was this: You're too valuable doing what you're doing to imagine you doing anything else.
That's the technical excellence trap. You become so good at execution that leadership can't see you as anything but an executor.

3.0 The Shift From Skills to Leadership
Here's what most technology leaders miss about career advancement.
Your technical skills are your foundation. But they're not your differentiator at the executive level.
At the C-suite, everyone is technically competent. Every CIO understands technology. Every CTO can think architecturally. Every VP of Engineering knows how to build systems.
What separates them isn't technical depth. It's their ability to think strategically about business outcomes, communicate with non-technical stakeholders, and develop high-performing teams.
The shift from director to executive isn't about accumulating more technical knowledge. It's about fundamentally changing how you create value.
Technical experts create value through their own output.
Leaders create value through others.
Technical experts solve problems.
Leaders prevent problems by redesigning systems and processes.
Technical experts are measured by what they deliver.
Leaders are measured by what their organizations achieve.
When I finally understood this distinction, everything changed. I stopped trying to be the smartest technical person in every conversation. I started focusing on asking better business questions. Understanding customer needs. Connecting technology decisions to revenue impact.
I went from being seen as a technical resource to being seen as a business leader who happened to have technical expertise.
That shift changed my career trajectory completely.

4.0 How to Make the Relevance Shift
The good news is this shift is completely learnable. You don't need an MBA. You don't need to abandon your technical foundation. You just need to deliberately build the leadership layer that multiplies your impact.
Here's how to start.
Step 1: Change Your Time Allocation
Pull up your calendar from the last month. Calculate how much time you spent on technical execution versus strategic leadership.
If more than fifty percent of your time is spent in technical execution, you're stuck in the relevance trap.
I know what you're thinking. "But the work needs to get done. Someone has to do it."
You're right. But that someone doesn't have to be you.
The moment that changed everything for me was when I deliberately shifted my time allocation. Seventy percent strategy and leadership. Thirty percent technical oversight and coaching my team.
It felt uncomfortable. Even irresponsible. I worried things would fall apart without my hands-on involvement.
But here's what actually happened. My team stepped up. They developed capabilities I didn't know they had. And I finally had space to think strategically about where we were going instead of constantly fighting fires.
Step 2: Reframe Your Value Proposition
Stop introducing yourself by what you do technically. Start describing the business outcomes you enable.
Instead of: "I'm the Director of Infrastructure. I manage our cloud architecture and ensure system reliability."
Try: "I lead the infrastructure team that enables our product to scale profitably while maintaining customer trust through reliability."
See the difference? One describes activity. The other describes impact.
When you talk to leadership, they don't care about your technical process. They care about business results. Revenue growth. Cost reduction. Risk mitigation. Customer satisfaction.
Learn to translate everything you do into those terms.
Step 3: Invest in Business Acumen
Read your company's annual report. Not the technology section. The business strategy section.
Understand your company's business model. Who are your customers? What problems are you solving for them? How does your company make money? What are the biggest threats to growth?
Then connect your technical work to those business realities.
When you propose a new system architecture, frame it around enabling faster time to market or reducing customer acquisition costs. When you advocate for technical debt reduction, connect it to business agility or competitive positioning.
The more fluent you become in business language, the more leadership will see you as a strategic partner instead of a technical resource.
Step 4: Develop Others Intentionally
Your leadership is ultimately measured by the capability of your team, not your personal technical output.
Stop being the hero who solves every problem. Start being the coach who develops problem solvers.
When someone brings you a technical challenge, resist the urge to jump in and fix it. Ask questions instead. Help them think through the problem. Guide them to solutions.
Yes, it takes longer initially. But it builds a team that can operate effectively without you. And that's exactly what executive leadership is looking for.
Step 5: Build Strategic Relationships
Stop spending all your time with other technical leaders. Start building relationships with business leaders across the organization.
Have coffee with your head of sales. Understand their challenges. Ask how technology could better support their goals.
Attend business strategy meetings even when you're not required. Learn how decisions get made. Understand what keeps executives awake at night.
The more you understand the business, the more valuable your technical perspective becomes.
5.0 The Real Test
Here's how you know you've made the shift.
Ask three colleagues this week: "What's the number one reason you value working with me?"
If they mention your technical skills, you're still valued as an expert. If they mention your leadership, vision, or strategic thinking, you've made the transition.
The answer will tell you everything about where you stand and what you need to focus on next.
Your technical expertise opened doors. But your leadership will determine how far you go.
The question isn't whether you're technically capable. The question is whether leadership sees you as strategically essential.
And that's entirely within your control to change.
Robert

Robert Castle
Founder | DIGITAL LEADERSHIP EXCELLENCE
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